Sisters

Both "nursing" their baby dolls... well, Cecilia is trying to figure it out...

Reading books together in Caroline's room

Can somebody help here?

Somebody with some fashion sense, that is? ;)

Cute skirt, huh? It is a hand-me-down for Caroline... if I can figure out how to put it on her, that is! I assume the above photo is the front of the skirt... right?

Here's what makes me unsure... this photo shows the back if I flipped the skirt over from the position in the top photo. The elastic is now centered, but the tag is in a really weird position, is it not?

And here is how it looks if I center the tag, the way you'd think it should be... doesn't look right at all now, does it? The elastic waist part is all skewed now.

Hmmm...

Because it is easier than writing posts myself...

...and so I can find it again to refer to myself! That is the real reason I am linking to it here, and in case anyone else wants to read some good stuff:

http://theparentingpassageway.com/2009/05/22/the-battlefield-of-the-mind-anger-and-parenting/

Good parenting information there!

Ascension Thursday

Thursday marked the day that we celebrate Jesus's return to heaven, which means we are nearing the end of the Easter season. We will officially celebrate it on Sunday, although it is known in the Church as "Ascension Thursday" and the feast is typically moved to the following Sunday. In my parochial school when I was growing up, we used to release helium balloons with notes tied to the strings on this day, to symbolize Jesus going up to heaven. We stopped doing it after several years (darn those environmentalists ;)... Tim, did you even get to experience the fun of a 500-balloon release Ascensions Thursday?? It was great fun, except for the few kids whose balloons would inevitably end up caught in a tree or power line only seconds after being released...

So, we refrained from a balloon release, although maybe that is an idea to keep in mind for future years. Instead, Caroline did some cloud painting with white paint, a cotton ball, and her fingers. Then she stuck an image of a painting of the ascension (which she cut out herself) to the clouds.

I also found this cute little craft online... if I can remember where, I will post the link. Caroline colored Jesus, the apostles, a cloud, and the background and then we cut them out and I attached them together... the result is that Jesus slides up and down so Caroline can make him rise up into the skiy, and the apostles slide back and forth (for some reason - maybe so they can pace back and forth?). We have used both these things as visuals in our dining room.

We also did this rhyme and finger play (which I was randomly inspired with late Wednesday evening):

Jesus ascended into the sky. (point finger upward)
All his apostles waved goodbye. (waving motion with hand)
Jesus said, "Across the world you must go," (spread out arms wide)
"Spreading the Good News so all may know." (cup hands around mouth, then point to head)

And we made this dessert Thursday morning - I called in Ascension Cloud Cake. It is completely no-bake - it is frozen. Nice for warmer weather, and very easy.

Here it is cut open... yummy!

So, we had a fun day celebrating the ascension! Everything sort of fell together for us in celebrating this feast... we don't always manage to do this much. Each thing was little and didn't take much time, so it ended up being very do-able. I have heard it mentioned that some people read blogs and get discouraged because of seeing what other people do in their homes to celebrate feast days... because it looks like they have perfect families with these great plans that go so smoothly all the time. And I have also seen it discussed that this is because people typically put the best things that happen on their blogs rather than blogging the messes and whining and other things that may happen day-to-day with small children. This is quite true. What you do not see behind these photos and words are the frequent temper tantrums Cecilia had all day, and that she did not take a nap. It was almost cute for awhile when she threw her little fits... until this day, when they came one after another, ha ha! She decides she wants to play with the toy lawnmower that Caroline is playing with and expresses this by shrieking and running towards it... so Caroline very politely steps aside and takes the other toy lawnmower for herself... and of course, Cecilia immediately decides she wants that lawnmower instead! This went back and forth a couple times until ! scooped Cecilia up, told her how hard it is to be one, and we went inside! So, we'll probably have some difficult days as she goes through this developmental phase and beginning to learn that life has limitations and disappointments. A tough lesson for anyone to learn at any age, poor baby ;) She'll make it, though, especially if that huge molar will finish breaking through her gum!

Definitions by Caroline

Whole Milk Kefir: "suck yogurt"
Pretty accurate description of it, I'd say...

Pretty as a Picture

Looking up at Mommy with those blue eyes

There are BLUEBERRIES growing up there!

Happy in the bath

Had to stick in a pretty picture of Caroline, too - it is harder to catch these lately, because she either won't look at the camera, or she makes a goofy smile.

Our Mary Garden

The month of May is dedicated to Mary, Mother of Jesus, so I decided it would make a good time to start a Mary Garden. In our garden, I wanted to have a statue of Mary as the focal point, but do you know how much those things cost??? The cheapest garden statue I could find was $60!

This garden area is at the end of our sunroom. It was already like this when we moved into the house years ago.

So, I painted this sign. Chris attached some posts and hammered it into the ground in our garden.

Caroline suggested we paint a picture of Mary since we didn't have a statue. So I found a piece of wood for her to paint. First, I painted the whole thing a beige color with some leftover wall paint so that it would seal the wood and hopefully allow it to withstand the weather better. It was still damp when Caroline began painting, which created a neat "wet-on-wet" effect. She also wanted to paint Joseph - painted him first, in fact. Then she painted Mary in brown and went over her again in blue. The red and green at the bottom is a flower. After it was dry, she wanted to put their names on it, so I spelled them for her and she wrote them. Other than the letters in her own name, I haven't "taught" her to form any letters... she has just started doing it on her own.

We plan to add a little at a time to our Mary Garden. We planted marigold seeds, so we'll see if they come up. I also plan to plant some rosemary, maybe just in a pot, and put it in the garden. We are also going to make a garden stone with some sort of Marian theme - I picked up a stone making kit and various blue gemstone things at the craft store. In future years, maybe we will get a statue, and we'll put in other plants traditionally associated with Mary. I have a few ideas for garden decorations that reflect some of Mary's many titles... it will be a fun project to revisit each May.

Great Article

I love this.  It is short - go read it!

Prayers Please

For those of you outside of my family who read this blog, I wanted to let you know that my new niece, Elizabeth, passed away at the beginning of this week, at almost two weeks old.  I ask for any prayers you can offer for the family, especially tomorrow, when there will be a memorial service held for Elizabeth, and in the coming weeks.

It is impossible to find words to describe this tragic loss.

La Leche League of Georgia's Area Conference!

Greetings from Unicoi State Park in the NE Georgia mountains!  Okay, I am not still there, although that would be nice ;)

We have held the Area Conference here for three years now, and what a wonderful environment it is.  There is a lodge with a conference center building and then three seperate lodging buildings in the complex.  Families can also camp, bring an RV, or rent a cabin.  All the conference sessions were held in the conference center building of the lodge.  We had a fantastic set of speakers this year, including one of LLL's co-founders, Marian Tompson, and Dr. Bob Sears.  I learned a lot in the sessions and enjoyed connecting with other leders and their families.

Thursday evening, we had a Hoedown.  We had the same live band that we have had for three years, and the kids had such a great time dancing and running around.  Caroline found some friends to dance with, and Cecilia had the time of her life running in circles.  She wore herslef out!!

Several tables were set up with crafts for the kids to do as they pleased.  Caroline strung dried pasta onto a piece of yarn to make a necklace and enjoyed coloring wih markers.

Cecilia had this same look on her face the entire time we were in the Hoedown!  I think she must have done 50 laps around Daddy!

She also found a dance partner and tolerated being danced with for about 60 seconds.

The best thing about a LLL conference is being around so many other like-minded parents.  I love seeing all the happy babies in slings and the parents who are gently guiding their toddlers and preschoolers... such a breath of fresh air when my day-to-day life includes hearing parents scream at their children in the Wal-Mart parking lot and carrying crying babies around in bucket seats, seemingly oblivious to the crying.

Being at a conference reminds me how blessed I have been to find this path in parenting.  Creating a close bond with our children from infancy is so beautiful, and so rewarding for both parent and child, and seeing it on a large scale is amazing.  

Cecilia sports her "cage free baby" shirt - our LLL group sold these in the bookstore

When away from a gathering such as this, many of us get looks and comments for things like breastfeeding our babies in public or sleeping with our babies, hearing comments about spoiling them or not being able to show them "who's the boss."  Here, it is okay that our babies don't sleep through the night and that they are still nursing as toddlers.  I laughed to myself as I thought about how this was probably a weekend where Unicoi had more children staying in the lodge rooms than ever before, yet they probably had a very low request for cribs comparatively!

One of the highlights for me was hering a session by Dr. Sears on the science behind attachment parenting.  It is not only about mothering our children naturally at the breast and going with our instincts as parents, but there is scientific backing for responding to our babies' cries!  Dr. Sears went into the scientific evidence such as how babies' brains develop in the early years and how a loving response from a parent helps to form those brain connections in the healthiest way possible.

We got a laugh out of his sense of humor at the end of his talk, too... he had prepared a slide in his PowerPoint presentation that listed resources, many of which were authored by Dr. William Sears and Martha Sears, his parents, and some that he co-authored with his parents and brothers, who are also doctors.  He had written that The Discipline Book was "written by my parents about my brothers," and that The Successful Child was "written by my parents about me."  It was probably funnier in person... that old line that we used to use in middle school, "you just had to be there."

This stair-step grassy area is the courtyard between all the lodge buildings.  It used to have big swings in it (the kind that old people would sit on, not fun kid swings, lol), but those had been replaced with benches this year.  The kids still enjoyed having a place to climb and explore.  Cecilia is very into climbing in the last week. She climbs onto the fireplace, the couch (not always successfully), Caroline's saucer chair, low tables... so it was nice to have a place where she could climb unhindered.

There is a room set up as a bookstore at the conference each year.  It has parenting and breastfeeding books for sale, a huge silent auction with all kinds of donated items, and individual group boutique sales tables.  Our group made several things to sell: tie-dyed baby and toddler shirts with pro-breastfeeding slogans on them, hand-dyed playsilks, baby doll slings, and a few other little items.This was our first year doing the silks, and they were a big seller, along with the doll slings.  Our shirts didn't do as well as in years past, but it is nice that we have plenty of them left for next year!  My co-leader, a group mom, and I worked hard to get them all done, so it will be nice to have a supply for the next couple years and not have to replenish it again in a year.

Of course, Chris could not get out of work for long... his technology expertise was called upon on Friday afternoon when Dr. Sears's computer would not work... Chris ended up setting him up with another laptop which belonged to our conference supervisor.  Then, in the closing session, my laptop was borrowed and then would not ply a DVD, so Chris went to work on it as well!

Caroline and I made a huge batch of play-dough for the Family Fun Night. Crafts were put out on the tables again, and we had a DJ playing 80's songs such as Thriller, Material Girl, and... YMCA?  Okay, so it wasn't purely 80's music...

Cecilia had another fun evening full of running in circles, dancing, and smiles.

Caroline made snowmen out of the play-dough.  Alexander is sitting to her left... he spent most of the evening at the play-dough table!  I was really happy with the recipe we used to make it... it turned out nice and soft and moldable.

Cecilia and I danced togther a bit too... I spent some of both evenings running around hanging up signs for the next day's sessions.  

Another good shot of Cecilia doing YMCA - Chris showed her how to do it, I guess, and seeing everyone else doing it probably helped.  So, the rest of the night, Cecilia ran around randomly sticking her hands up in the air in the "Y" position... during Thriller, she was still stuck on YMCA!

Cecilia and I posed with Marian Tompson, one of LLL's seven original founders.  She has been coming to our Area Conference for several years now and it is always a delight to hear her speak, and so neat to realize you are talking to one of the seven people who, 50 years ago, began an organization that would help so many mothers and babies in such a profound way! Cecilia had just woken up a few minutes earlier from a nap in this picture, hence the dazed look and sweaty, messy hair.  You've heard of hat-hair?  At an LLL conference, you see babies with sling-hair!

There was a ceremony honoring all the leaders and welcoming new leaders on Saturday evening.  Unfortunately, we missed nearly the whole thing.  We went to Mass in Cleveland, almost 20 minutes away, and then had to eat dinner, so we didn't make it back in time.  But, we did make it to see the pretty "centerpiece" (for lack of a better word... is it a centerpiece if it is on the ground??).  The last names Froelich and Wagner are on the side - these are two of the original seven founders who both died within the past year.  We paid tribute to them as we welcomed the leaders of the future... who would have known over fifty years ago the ripple effect these seven ladies would have on breastfeeding and mothering?

Believe it or not, this was the better of two pictures... Caroline was clearly tired, twisting her hair.  Sofie, my co-leader Theresa's baby, seems to be more interested in Marian than in the camera.  Cecilia isn't screaming to get down in this picture.  All three of us ladies look fabulous though, I think ;)  Cecilia has no pants because apparently now Target disposables officially join the list of diapers that don't work.  Or maybe I should just up-size.  Cecilia pooped all over me after dinner, rode back to Unicoi without her soiled pants, and happily ran around the courtyard in her diaper.  If I'd taken off the diaper, she'd have *really* been a cage free baby!

And, a wonderful end to a great weekend - our family walked around the neat town of Helen just outside of Unicoi State Park.  And then, peace and quiet...

... HA!  For about a half hour!  Cecilia suddenly sleeps poorly in the van again.  We had to stop so I could nurse her by hanging over the seat to get her to sleep instead of scream... and darn those railroad tracks in the Marble Hill/Tate area!!!

I feel like I could gush on and on about the wonderful feeling of attending an LL conference... Chris says he wishes they were held quarterly!!!  But I will close here so I can finally post this and then GO TO BED!!!